So everyone is talking about Fifty Shades of Grey so I decided to jump on the band wagon. Most people are focusing on the sexual aspects of the movie, but no one is addressing the motivations behind the actions.

The main character was horrifically and destructively abused. Most movies are exaggerations on reality.  This movie is a very extreme take on being in a relationship with a battered person. When you love someone you have to decide if you want to forgive their crazy and work through their darkness. *Spoiler Alert*  If you’re read the series, you know ultimately he changes for her.

I would never never suggest someone put them self in harms way for someone else. But I feel like the movie has two perspectives and one is the journey of a very abused person trying to learn how to let himself be loved. 

On a more positive note, I think the blind folds and hand cuffs make for playful pictures. 🙂